grief / loss

The loss of a loved one knocks the wind out of you. It is complex, personal, and brings up the unexpected. Just when you think you have it under control, you realize you don’t. The hardest part is how solitary missing can be when there is no one else who understands quite the same way you do. While no one ever will exactly, there is peace and life in sharing some of the knowing.

Grief & Loss

Loss of every kind is painful and personal. It brings up the unexpected. It’s hard to make sense of anything. The hardest part is how lonely it is. While no one will ever get it exactly, there is peace and life in sharing some of the knowing.

 

COUNSELING FOR GRIEF & LOSS

you are in the right place

Emotionally. Physically. Cognitively. Spiritually.

There is no “right” way to feel or heal.

You can be both: ok just as you are,

-and- begin to make changes.

Gain peace and begin to thrive.

gain peace & begin to thrive

WITH SKILLS & STRATEGIES

begin to thrive

after grief / loss

 

is this you?

  • DISBELIEF

  • GUILT / SHAME

  • INTENSE SORROW / PAIN

  • RUMINATION ABOUT LOVED ONE

  • STUCK ON THE “WHAT-IF’S”

  • TRUST DIFFICULTIES

  • NUMBNESS / DETACHMENT

  • BITTERNESS / RESENTMENT

  • MEANING OF LIFE QUESTIONS

  • SURVIVOR’S REMORSE

  • FEAR OF LOSS

  • HEALTH ANXIETY

  • ISOLATING / AVOIDANCE

  • INABILITY TO ENJOY LIFE

  • PAINFUL MEMORIES

you - thriving:

  • DEEPER UNDERSTANDING

  • SELF-COMPASSION

  • BALANCE EMOTIONAL STRENGTH

  • HEALTHY NOSTALGIA

  • GENTLE ACCEPTANCE OF WHAT IS

  • TRUST OTHERS SKILLFULLY

  • FEEL & BE PRESENT

  • LET GO & RELEASE ANGER

  • EXPLORE DEEPER MEANING

  • FORGIVE SELF FOR LIVING

  • LESSEN FEAR OF LOSS

  • REDUCE HEALTH ANXIETY

  • GAIN REASSURANCE & COURAGE

  • ENJOY SMALL PLEASURES AGAIN

  • CHOOSE THE MEMORIES TO REPLAY

i can help

gain peace & thrive

Grief & Loss Counseling with Cassandra DQ.

It didn’t start with loss. It began with a meaningful connection that you understand best. The story of you and the story of your loved one matters.

You may feel stuck, but honoring a loved one’s absence and presence in your life by processing your story with a compassionate guide will offer relief as you continue to heal and begin a new chapter. Your unique story deserves to be heard and understood.

Let’s make progress as a team.

counseling catered to you

You possess unique strengths and challenges depending on who you are. Man, woman, LGBTQA+, Black, White, Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Hispanic, Asian, American, differently abled, neurodiverse, elderly etc…There are many facets to identity. Who you are should be considered and understood, so that the counseling strategies reflect you.

grief / Loss

Individual Resilience Counseling